D𝗿𝗼𝘄𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗼𝘅𝗶𝗰 #𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆? -

Perfection is Everywhere

A background of numerous scattered question mark cards with a large, bold red "PERFECT" overlaid. A red "A+" is positioned at an angle above "PERFECT," suggesting a theme of excellence or achievement. — A background of numerous scattered question mark cards with a large bold red PERFECT overlaid A red A+ is positioned at an angle above PERFECT suggesting a theme of excellence or achievement

In this age of social media, where every post seems to be a reminder of someone’s ideal, Instagram-filtered life, it’s easy to feel the pressure.

But let’s be real—how often do we scroll through LinkedIn, stumbling upon posts that paint a picture of unending professional bliss? Perfect companies. Perfect jobs. Perfect lives.

Other folks seem to be absolutely *crushing it* every day. 🚀

⚡NEWS FLASH: 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁. ⚡

What’s Really Happening

What you’re seeing is a carefully edited highlight reel. Trust me, behind those glossy updates are struggles, frustrations, and a whole lot of unglamorous moments.

The truth is that everyone is battling something but often they’re afraid to show a crack, for fear of being judged.

When we slap on a fake smile 😊 and pretend all is well, we inadvertently pile on the pressure for everyone around us.

But What About “Fake It Til You Make It?”

But wait, isn’t positivity a good thing? Shouldn’t we see the glass as half-full? Isn’t that the key to happiness?

Absolutely! But there’s a fine line between healthy optimism and toxic positivity.

How to Know If You’re Engaging in Toxic Positivity or Healthy Optimism

Here’s a simple litmus test I use:

𝗖𝗵𝗲𝗰𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻. 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀’ 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗮𝗹, 𝗼𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗲𝗻𝘂𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳-𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳?

Positivity is wonderful, but when admitting that life is tough feels like a risk, it turns into something harmful.

It’s all about balance. ⚖️ Recognizing challenges doesn’t mean wallowing in negativity; it’s about being real, acknowledging struggles, and seeing them as stepping-stones to growth.

Overcoming Challenge is Inspiring

Too often, in our race to showcase success, we skip over the most compelling part of the story.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲, 𝗼𝗳 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗺𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗼𝗳 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴𝗹𝘆 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗲𝗱—𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘁𝗮𝗹𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗹𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗼𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝘂𝘀.

We need spaces where it’s safe to voice what isn’t working, to be vulnerable without fearing judgment.

True growth comes from facing reality head on, not from hiding behind a facade of unwarranted positivity. So yes, celebrate your victories, but don’t shy away from your truths.

Let’s develop a culture where it’s okay to not always be okay. Where real support triumphs over the illusion of perfection.

Have a particular challenge you’d like to work through?

SCHEDULE A FREE CALL